Divorce: isn't good for people.

           It started about falling inlove then get married and having a children. Many years later they started to notice that there's something different in their relationship. What some parents don't realize when they file for a divorce is the damage and effect that it will have on their kids. However, there are many factors on why couples would eventually resolve to divorce.  Like, cheating, abuse, financial problems, and immaturity.
Cheating is one big problem, and some would inevitably resort to divorce. Abuse, is when the two are in a heated argument and one shows force through physical abuse. The financial part is when money is on the line and it becomes a problem. Then there's immaturity, it's when one thinks that marriage is an easy breezy moment and that they will always be happy. Till it becomes hard, and it's easier for them to give up than try their best to solve the dilemma they faced.

One cause of divorce can be, where one of the partners enter a disagreement, where in one of the factors would be, they don't love each other, or 3rd party is involved. The effect is on the child's mental behavior.

Divorce is causing many children to grow up in a single parent home. It affects kids emotionally and causes them to experience painful feelings such as fear, loss, anger and confusion. Divorce also hurts a child's academic achievement. Their anxiety levels peak as they feel they are going to be abandoned. They experience feelings of loneliness due to the loss of the other parent. Different children go through these emotions at different levels and at different times depending on the child's age.They have to suffer the lack of one of the role models they need; hence, they will receive less guidance an attention from their parents. Usually the adverse effects of growing up in a single parent home are felt in later childhood and adulthood.

Divorce can be avoided through a series of talks, like consulting with the right person. The openess and bonding of families. So that the many, may not resolve to such practice, and that they'll continue to nurture their families.